BACKUP PLAN?
Have you ever thought of a backup option in your relationship?
Why not? We keep backup option for everything our contact, our conversation, photos, movies etc.
So why is that one thing that force us to step aside from the line and be focused in the same relationship?
Ever imagined how much it is important to have an alternative?
Life is not easy and to live it happily one must follow certain do's, to make it a better place to fit in. It's not right to keep someone on hold, especially when that someone likes you or loves you. Keeping on hold will bring two situations:
One when you want that person to be in your life but presently you have someone else with you and don't want to leave the current love because you also know that somewhere down the line you also feel for that person and at the same time have this thought that the person might just leave you someday. So, you keep all the points in mind and intentionally keep a backup option.
Secondly, the person you put on hold is the one you were serious with at some point of time but at present you are with someone else but still in talking terms with that person so when you realize that you are completely over with the current relationship or might get over someday, any day or anytime, there comes this moment when you realize that you already have a backup plan..
The best outcomes of having one is not being depressed after a breakup, no sexual frustration, no feeling low, no conversation problem, and moreover you get the attention and all you get to care about is how to deal with the backup lover and not to forget about the extraordinary sweet behavior that comes out naturally.
So people not to worry about the breakup while getting into a relationship because you have got a backup admirer of yours who you know will be there in your darkest of times.
That person is out there, find the person and be safe with the harsh realities of life!!
Why not? We keep backup option for everything our contact, our conversation, photos, movies etc.
So why is that one thing that force us to step aside from the line and be focused in the same relationship?
Ever imagined how much it is important to have an alternative?
Life is not easy and to live it happily one must follow certain do's, to make it a better place to fit in. It's not right to keep someone on hold, especially when that someone likes you or loves you. Keeping on hold will bring two situations:
One when you want that person to be in your life but presently you have someone else with you and don't want to leave the current love because you also know that somewhere down the line you also feel for that person and at the same time have this thought that the person might just leave you someday. So, you keep all the points in mind and intentionally keep a backup option.
Secondly, the person you put on hold is the one you were serious with at some point of time but at present you are with someone else but still in talking terms with that person so when you realize that you are completely over with the current relationship or might get over someday, any day or anytime, there comes this moment when you realize that you already have a backup plan..
The best outcomes of having one is not being depressed after a breakup, no sexual frustration, no feeling low, no conversation problem, and moreover you get the attention and all you get to care about is how to deal with the backup lover and not to forget about the extraordinary sweet behavior that comes out naturally.
So people not to worry about the breakup while getting into a relationship because you have got a backup admirer of yours who you know will be there in your darkest of times.
That person is out there, find the person and be safe with the harsh realities of life!!
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