Diffidence

We all are scared of our insecurities specially when someone wants to know us better 

We are afraid about the fact that how they will feel when they get to know our deepest secrets, things which we lack in and the flaws which are too important to hide in front of the people. 

The best way to deal with this situation is to face it, accept your insecurities because if it’s not fixable then it’s not your thing to worry about, maybe god gave it to you to be strong and confident. 

Don’t hide and feel bad about what you have got, because if you lead yourself down, the whole world will!! 

If you have the ability to ignore and live past your insecurities, the others won’t even notice because everyone anyway is consumed with their own issues and feelings of insecurities. 

At least you will be one less, who has the guts to take the high road. 

Insecurities unnecessarily make one feel bad, despite one knowing the reality, they expect an unexpected response which automatically creates anxiety and low self esteem. 

You are your whole, you are yourself with those flaws and accomplishments. But still you only count the good things that you have which only makes you - “your half”. “The other half” is still filled with flaws and characteristics that aren’t even explored because you were too involved in mourning about your insecurities. 

If you actually want to get away with this feeling of living in misery, then explore yourself! Know what you actually are! Explore your talents, explore your other flaws not to feel bad about yourself but to know the real self. 

Acceptance will come automatically and all of this won’t even matter.