I was too deep into my thoughts and suddenly how much that one thing meant to me. After being too much involved, dicing my head into the heads and tails of one peculiar ponderance. I stood up, unknotted my hair, felt the cool breeze, lit my cigarette, inhaled it and felt at ease.
Have you ever thought of a backup option in your relationship? Why not? We keep backup option for everything our contact, our conversation, photos, movies etc. So why is that one thing that force us to step aside from the line and be focused in the same relationship? Ever imagined how much it is important to have an alternative? Life is not easy and to live it happily one must follow certain do's, to make it a better place to fit in. It's not right to keep someone on hold, especially when that someone likes you or loves you. Keeping on hold will bring two situations: One when you want that person to be in your life but presently you have someone else with you and don't want to leave the current love because you also know that somewhere down the line you also feel for that person and at the same time have this thought that the person might just leave you someday. So, you keep all the points in mind and intentionally keep a backup option. Secondly, the person you put ...
We all are scared of our insecurities specially when someone wants to know us better We are afraid about the fact that how they will feel when they get to know our deepest secrets, things which we lack in and the flaws which are too important to hide in front of the people. The best way to deal with this situation is to face it, accept your insecurities because if it’s not fixable then it’s not your thing to worry about, maybe god gave it to you to be strong and confident. Don’t hide and feel bad about what you have got, because if you lead yourself down, the whole world will!! If you have the ability to ignore and live past your insecurities, the others won’t even notice because everyone anyway is consumed with their own issues and feelings of insecurities. At least you will be one less, who has the guts to take the high road. Insecurities unnecessarily make one feel bad, despite one knowing the reality, they expect an unexpected response which auto...
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